Wishful vs. Critical Thinking: Are You Chasing Comfort or Growth?
As the facts-and-stats guy, known for getting things done by constantly challenging conventional wisdom and questioning so-called “best practices,” I get challenged—a lot. Add to that my deep-rooted faith, and those challenges double. But honestly, I welcome it.
Time vs. Timing: Mastering the Art of Seizing the “Perfect” Moment
Alright, I’m gonna brag for a second. I’m the guy who always lands the front-row parking spot. The green lights just seem to line up. When I slow down at the intersection, the cop pulls up behind me—just when I’ve hit the perfect speed. But here’s the kicker: This isn’t luck. It’s not some cosmic coincidence. It’s about clarity, focus, and being undistracted.
Lazy vs. Lost: Finding Your Purpose When You’re Stuck
You’ve been there, right? Waking up with good intentions, ready to crush the day, only to find yourself stuck in the same place, day after day. You feel lazy. You tell yourself, “Tomorrow, I’ll get it together. I’ll hit the gym. I’ll start that project.” But then tomorrow comes, and nothing happens.
Chemistry vs. Character: Choosing Who You Partner With Wisely
You’ve felt it—the spark. That initial connection. Whether it’s in a romantic relationship, a business deal, or even in the friendships you build, chemistry grabs you. But here’s the truth that’s hard to swallow: Chemistry alone won’t make a relationship last. And yet, that’s what we’re all chasing. Why? Because it feels good right now. But will it carry you through the tough times ahead?
Fruits vs. Roots: How to Create Real, Lasting Results
What’s beneath the surface is what will keep you going when everything else falls apart.
Critiquing vs. Coaching: The Secret to Building High-Performance Teams
You know the feeling. You walk out of a meeting, and instead of feeling energized and ready to tackle the next big thing, you’re left drained, frustrated, and stuck. You just spent an hour dissecting past mistakes, but no one talked about how to move forward.
Struggling vs. Surrendering: Why Holding On Is Holding You Back
Struggling vs. Surrendering: Why Holding On Is Holding You Back Ever feel like you’re stuck, trying to move forward but somehow sinking deeper with every step? That’s the weight of distractions—those nagging thoughts, past regrets, and endless mental clutter that we cling to, even when we know they’re holding us back. It’s not always the big,
To-Do’s vs. Just Do’s: How to Actually Get Things Done
To-Do’s vs. Just Do’s: How to Actually Get Things Done Let’s get real for a minute: How many times have you sat down to make a to-do list, full of all the things you think you need to do, only to end up feeling more overwhelmed by the end of the day? The list grows, but you don’t.
Erasing vs. Embracing: Stop Overthinking Your Purpose and Start Owning It
Erasing vs. Embracing: Stop Overthinking Your Purpose and Start Owning It We live in a world obsessed with perfect narratives—clean storylines that make us look like we always knew what we were doing. But the truth is, life is messy. Success is messy. Purpose is messy. And trying to erase that messiness? It’s a losing game.
Bucket vs. Chuck-It List: Stop Chasing Someone Else’s Goals
Bucket vs. Chuck-It List: Stop Chasing Someone Else’s Goals Let’s get real—how many of the goals you’re chasing actually belong to you? Are they deeply personal, or are they borrowed from someone else’s dreams, expectations, or highlight reels? It’s easy to get swept up in the noise of what looks good on the surface, but chasing